alexseanchai | lovememe tiem!

♥

all the ♥s.

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You have a fantastic and driven sense of right and wrong, and a lot of talent that you put a lot of work into honing, even when it is going unrecognized and unrewarded by some of the fools you interact with.

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You work hard, you do self-reflection very well, and you have been supportive (not only of me, but of others in our shared circle). That makes a good human.

♥!

You are so admirable with all the things you choose to take on. Even when you can't accomplish all of them, you try and that alone is impressive

♥!

I admire just how driven and determined you are, how hard you work, and how much you care.

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You are a presence without whom my reading page would be emptier, and frequently less thought-provoking; I don't comment often, and I may not always say things how I meant them when I do, but I appreciate you and am finding a strength to be true to myself in watching you do the same. ♥

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You are creative and think deeply into the causes and the morals of things. You care about the people around you and have a strong sense of both justice and kindness.

♥!

You bring a lot of positivity to my dwircle, even when you're dealing with extremely difficult things in your own life. I really admire the way you keep up regular journalling and put your self-exploration out there for others to read.

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i really like your perspective on things, particularly spiritual stuff.

♥!

You are in earnest pursuit of an authentic life, where you can be open about every aspect of your identity. It is fascinating to see your journey and humbling to be allowed to comment on it every now and then.

♥!

♥ yes.

You are brave and strong and you talk about tarot and genderqueerness and social justice and you are achieving your dreams. ♥!

I still cannot believe I am achieving my dreams. It's amazing.

I have so much more to talk about genderqueerness and social justice and tarot, so I am glad those are good things!

You deserve to be happy and I really hope you get that soon. You are a lovely creature who has so much to offer and I hope you are able to be in a place where you thrive soon.

<3 Thank you so much! Soooooon.

I am so glad we found each other on DW: you've been a good person for me to know in so many ways. The way you're working on and talking about your life is not only good to hear but has helped me think about my own life in useful ways. Plus it's nice to hear about some of the things going on in a place I miss, because you're there now. :)

*blush!* I agree with this about knowing you!

I don't know you but have a ♥ anyway! :D

aww, thank you!

You are boldly honest and self-reflective and use some smart tactics for coping with tough interpersonal stuff.

You are a fantastic and wonderful person and your creativity and abilities to produce lovely things are a treasure to experience.

... it's been a bit of a few weeks. ♥

Indeed it has, I hear. Recovery still going well?

You are competent and confident and have a fantastic sense of humor ♥

Recovery is still going well!

♥

You have strength in the face of adversity, a big pool of love, and you aren't afraid to use it. :)

Hee. ^_^

I get so much pleasure out of reading your writing, and how you handle things, and I need that pleasure. So I have great appreciation for you.

Thank you.

You are an awesome Azz - your tales of your days are usually entertaining, your openness about many things is often lovely (if occasionally responsible for sparking bizarre thoughts, but knowing you, that too is a compliment xD), and you're generally willing to help however you can. I'm frequently very delighted I know you!

Bizarre thoughts are the best thoughts! :D

You all should get all the best shiny happy things ever. You are generous in giving of your time, expertise, and hard personal stories in ways that help other people to come to some new and productive realizations. You have built friendships and family connections that bridge over the thorns and moats of systemic barriers. You knit things that make weird body stuff seem adorable and squishy in the good way. You folks make me smile.

Thank you.

I am hoping for shiny happy things! They can be a lot of hard work sometimes, though!

Yes, they sure can. I am trying to embrace journey and process and the inherently-imperfect excellent to help cope with this, but that's a struggle in its own right.

I am trying to beam you all some luck right now. Feel free to let me know if it arrives or if I hit a neighborhood squirrel by accident.

Thank you.

There are so many things going on in my life right now.

*nods*

Saying that reminded me of this incident from a temp job I had some years ago: http://azurelunatic.dreamwidth.org/6601387.html

Read it. Huh. That's a thing all right.

Azz is brilliant at a style of blogging I really love, with a mix of details of day-to-day life recounted in a witty style, with sharp political analysis. I've learned a lot from reading over the years, about tech, about social justice, about relationships.

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You yell as a service and have excellent times with people. And you do all sorts of work helping other people make valid life choices.

I do.
I do.
I do.

Thank you.

:D? It is nearly my birthday!

You handle lots shit with grace, and you are committed to learning lots and you do it well even if you're sometimes surprised by this. ♥

You are sweet as anything and even though I don't say much to you, I am delighted to see you are happy right now. COngradulations and may you live well for a long time.

I don't know you, but happy almost-birthday, and have a ♥ anyway!

I haven't actually met you yet but you have a great icon and going off of what's public on your blog, you make amazing things and you read cool books.

You're amazing. You keep learning after a lot of people would stop and you just keep trying things even if they're hard for you.

- Tom

You have put up with an unrelenting amount of crap for a very long time, and you have a marriage and love to show for it!

This could not have come at a better time.

Oh good, glad I could help!

You are unfailingly kind and creative and I am glad to know you ♥

Same to you. <3 Thank you for being lovely and doing this, as well as being a generally neat person.

You are wonderful, you are fantastic, you have an amazing imagination and creative brain, you take care of me, and I love you more than the whole world.

You are ridiculous and I will get you back for saying anything on here when we are settled in the other house but I love you more than the world and you are the best thing that's ever happened to me.

~~so maybe I'm just getting you back here, w/e~~

You're nice and supportive and creative, which is my favorite combination in friends. :)

:D You are so, so awesome yourself. Thank you!

I don't know you but it sounds like you need a lot of ♥♥♥! So ♥!

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<333 I think you're so cool.

Awwww. *grins* Thank you so much. Cool is not a word I'd use for myself but I will totally take it!

You are really really kind and welcoming, you are into some cool stories and media, and you write awesome folkloric and creepy-delightful things. You look deeper into people, relationships, and things in the world more than merely glancing at the surface. You consciously surround yourself with love in a way that shares its warmth with other people. You keep trying and you remind me to do the same.

And now I'm just sitting here grinning. Thank you! This was so very sweet and I appreciate it greatly.

<3

You help me to keep the creative spark alive and working with all that you do. Thank you for showing us your creative impulses.

<33333 Thank you so, so much for telling me this.

Love?

You are open about your mental and other health issues in ways that encourage other people (like me) to be similarly open about similar issues. I am glad to know you ♥

I don't know you, but have some ♥ anyway!

You are kind and have extended welcome to me. You are interested in interesting things. You celebrate the multitudinous diversity and creativity of art and life. If brain weasels were Daleks you would be baseball batting them on a regular basis. You have opened the doors AND the windows for interesting and wonderful things to come into your life.

You help me in so many useful ways and I'm so glad that you're here.

Seconding the "could not have come at a better time" comment!

Every reply I have seen from you on

awesomeers has been encouraging (and you host those comments frequently, giving everyone regular opportunity to be proud of ourselves), and that speaks well of you.

You have been such a good friend to me over the last few years. You are smart, funny, kind, sarcastic, encouraging, generous and so insightful and I am proud to know you.

<3

Hello. Love you.

I'm so glad that you do. :)

You are an excellent

awesomeers host!

Thanks. It's something I'm glad I can do; the community is so good for me.

If it was possible to get across just how much I love you in words, I would have done so long ago.

I don't know you, but it sounds like you too could use a lot of ♥♥♥! So ♥!

Aw, thank you!

You're welcome. :D

You are lovely, clever and thoughtful, and I am very glad that you are my friend.

I am very glad you're my friend, too.

You are super-awesome and kind. I'm lucky to have you as a friend.

You're one of the best people I've met on the internet, hands down. :)

Same. <3

You apply courtesy, patience, willingness to see others' perspectives, stubbornness, a lively curiosity, and kindness to many different difficult situations. You consistently encourage others to feel safe, to express themselves safely, and to build bridges of love.

This is so good for me to hear, thank you.

<3

I think you're basically awesome. You're so good at putting across your perspective, even getting past people's prejudices about "people like you", without being combative about it. I hope you find yourself in an actually better time soon.

I think you're so awesome that I'm delighted to hear you think any of these things. :) Thank you.

It always helps to have someone comment on an awesomeers comment with supportive messages. Thank you.

I don't know you yet, but the fact that you are doing this means that you are a caring and loving individual who likes to spread such around. Thank you for being a force for positive feelings amidst the creeping noise and disrespect.

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You are talented, persistent, and very brave.

Thank you ♥

I don't know you (yet :D), but have some ♥ anyway!

♥ (and ♥ your sparklepeen!)

:D (So do I. It's constantly hilarious to me that it's what people associate with me! xD)

Well, you both know me! And Steph!

Yes, which is a great way to start!

I am excited about interacting with you since I admire anyone who will motorcycle across half a continent for gaming friends.

\m/ Subscribed!

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Um, hello.

Hi! ♥

Hello! I don't know you but have some ♥ anyway!

Hello! You are great. I admire your combination of strong, considered ethics; care for others and for yourself and intelligence. And you're just lovely.

Your friendship has added so much to my life: your generosity and thoughtfulness and silliness and willingness to navigate the terrors and bafflement of home ownership together have been invaluable.

I haven't met you yet but I look forward to possibly doing so. I assume a mutual interest in being extremely Celtic.

Who can say no to a little love?

I admire your dedication to fic-writing and fandom generally ♥

I don't know you, but your handle is fantastic. Have some ♥ anyway!

I don't know you personally, but you're a fantastic writer!

You write extremely cool fanfiction. You have created many interesting things and chosen to share them publicly, for which I thank you. You are up front about your personal policies, which is both helpful and admirably direct.

You are quite neat and I'm excited to know you. Thank you for existing.

♥?

♥!

You are stubborn and very funny!

:D

Love your humor and am always glad to see you on my reading page ♥

:D ♥

You are awesome and lovely and amazing, and I've really missed talking to you (completely my fault /o\) since I drifted away from Twitter. ♥

I miss you too! ♥ I can't really get gchat on my current devices tho (I, er. Don't bother with my computer really lol), but can you use FB messenger?

I haven't met you yet but you have interesting fandoms and strong opinions. You are considerate enough to both have a bunny in a teacup icon ready to go and to ask people if they are bothered by bunnies which is incredible, so I already want to offer you a high five, a hug, and/or cute animal photos.

boink

♥

(Scientific progress?)

*kapwing*
*zoom zoom zoom*
*crash*
*crinkle tinkle*
...
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...
*ominous silence*
*from underneath the rubble, a faint purr*

Well, this is handy. Could do with some complimentary behavior.

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You behave kindly, and assume the best of others whenever possible.

You have wisdom, and the training to evaluate information critically.

Being physically proximal to you is a delight, and one I wish to experience again in the coming months.

Your protective instincts are admirable and a source of comfort.

And you are helpful, so incredibly helpful.

Your comments are always thoughtful and helpful, your links always expose me to a lot of stuff that makes my life better. I'm very glad that our virtual paths have crossed.

You write splendidly and insightfully, and find the most excellent links.

I haven't been keeping up on

awesomeers lately except to see comments when I post, and omg you're doing So Many Things! Well done and sending you love for continuing to do the things you do!

You are so awesome I don't know where to start. You post really useful links across a lot of different categories, from social justice issues, to science, to fandom, to extremely adorable critters. You are talented at and dedicated to wonderful nerdy things like crossing sports and divination tools. You are thoughtful and supportive of the people you know,

I adore you to stupid extents and am thrilled to call you a friend. Thank you for being there for me, extending your presence out so that I might get to know you and generally being a kind and wonderful creature.

I love the way you think about things, and I learn something valuable from nearly all your comments and posts. I'm really glad we have enough people in common on DW to have connected.

You are well read and have good insights on a variety of topics that I find stimulating.

Chat with you is surprisingly engaging. I am eager for more.

You are gentle; in my world of turmoil this is a much-needed respite.

<3

Perfect timing.

Love for you!!

I will try and skype or whatever when I actually wake up. (Fun with sleep schedules!)

♥!

I haven't met you yet, but you take joy in nature, you are outspokenly positive about the rights of marginalized people, and you cleverly phrased the term "geek-of-all-trades" which I think is delightful and I want to steal it.

Love love lovememe :)

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I haven't met you yet, but you read amazing things and (I would bet) probably also say loud helpful things that bother bothersome people.

I try :D <3

You are great and funny and kind and filthy and silly and great.

ualities I've worked hard at. *mwah*

You are super. I like your humour and kindness and fierceness, and I am very glad to know you.

I'm very glad to know YOU. You are very soothing to be around, and I value that quality in people immensely.

I think this is a wonderful idea.

Sending <3 <3 <3 to everyone. If I skipped you by mistake please let me know and I will go back and add comments.

I like <3 too.

Your perspective on life is a delight, and you always take such care for the comfort and safety of others around you.

<3 Thank you <3

You're wonderful and kind. I love how willing you are to extend information out to others and just...>I don't know. I'm excited to get to know you more and I hopefully look forward to a long friendship with you.

<3 Thank you. That sounds wonderful.

I've only recently connected with you but I'm really enjoying your posts and comments. You seem like an awesome person and I'm looking forward to getting to know you more.

<3 I've enjoyed connecting with you too and I like reading your writing.

Your enthusiasm for the small things in life is a delight.

<3 Thank you. Oh! Look! A shiny thing!

You are such a marvelous supportive friend I am so glad to have met you! ♥

<3 Aww I'm very happy to have met you too.

i really really really love talking about cats and animal code switching with someone who understands what i am talking about when i say animal code switching. so, thank you for squeeing with me.

<3 Aww, thanks. I enjoy squeeing with you too and look forward to finding more things to squee about!

*cat-me: stands nearby, looking up at you*
*MROWRPF?*

You seem super cool. Teacher kudos!

Hey, Anon, if you happen to wander back this way, maybe re-comment your comment on the correct thread? As is we have no idea who you're kudosing! :)

<3

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I'm a bit scared of love memes but I would appreciate people saying nice things about me.

You always have such thoughtful things to say and often you teach me something when you say them, and you sent me such a lovely Ireland postcard I ♥ it and you.

You have these amazing thinky-thoughts on religion!
You make an incredible effort to make your spaces, in person and online, helpful forums for open and honest discussion without falling prey to the fallacy that every crappy idea deserves to be aired in an open and honest discussion.
Your gender-thoughts are always interesting.
You are living in wildly non-standard ways that I envy just a little -- you have found a model of relationship and being that makes you happy, and have gone after it with both hands and an open and willing heart.

You are intelligent, beautiful, caring and have great ideas.

I always appreciate reading your perspectives on scholarship, religion, and other social comments. You help me to broaden my perspectives and knowledge.

I am very glad to have been getting to know you. You're thoughtful and intelligent and great at explaining things. You're also kind and careful with people. I like all these things about you.

Words & deeds-style, please.

i.e. Tell me something(s) I've said, done, or made that you liked, rather than something about me that you like - my brainweasels tend to filter out the latter, but the former will totally make my day. Thank you!

"How Are You? (In Haiku)" :) ♥

Thank you! I really enjoy hosting it, and it means a lot to me that people who participate seem to enjoy it too. <3

You always seem to have so many words of encouragement for those around you!

Thank you. People have given me a great deal of encouragement over the years, and giving it forward means a lot to me. Glad it's coming across well!

So many times around, when the haiku comes, it's really useful for checking in with myself and everyone else.

Eeeee, thank you. I always appreciate hearing from you; I'm glad you participate so regularly.

*love*

You are committed to seeing the moments of positivity in life. I admire that. ♥!

lovememe tiem!

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